Three Wise Reasons to Give: Rescue, Recovery and Re-Engagement
James’ addiction to alcohol nearly destroyed the relationship he had with his two daughters (ages 3 and 17). His older daughter was angry and refused to have any contact with her father. James’ younger daughter was shielded from his addiction by his ex-wife, but this meant the once close relationship he had with her was hanging by a thread.
Abandoning both his daughters was not something James thought he would ever do. However, addiction affects many people in many different ways.
After being exposed to an extensive amount of trauma in the Army, along with a family history of addiction, James knew he would not be able to pull himself out of the depths of his addiction by himself. In order to get his family back, he needed help.
James recalls the Army giving him a plane ticket back to Grand Rapids. He arrived in the city with no friends, no family, and no job. He lived in a hotel until he ran out of money. James had heard about Guiding Light from a friend, who had gone through the program recently and decided if there was any time in his life to give long-term recovery a shot – it was now. Deep down he hoped to get better, not only for himself, but for his daughters.
Through Guiding Light’s Recovery program, James has been able to work on the deep-rooted pain he felt. James explains, “I finally dealt with the inner me, what I was ignoring with the drinking. Guiding Light Recovery has helped me become a person that I love. I now abstain from alcohol out of love for myself and my children. I would’ve walked out of any other place, but the support of the staff and other men at Guiding Light kept me here.”
James’ self-worth was restored through his recovery. He was able to reconnect with his older daughter, who is very proud of his ongoing recovery. They talk regularly and James has been able to visit her. In addition, James has contact with his younger daughter and his ex-wife allows him visitation.
James is planning to move to Guiding Light’s sober living community called Iron House. He is also planning to work on a custody plan with his ex-wife, so that he can be an active father in his daughter’s life. While James still has pain and struggles to work through, he now sees the light at the end of the trouble.
THIS MEANS THAT ANYONE WHO BELONGS TO CHRIST HAS BECOME A NEW PERSON. THE OLD LIFE IS GONE; A NEW LIFE HAS BEGUN!
2 CORINTHIANS 5:17